Surprising!
At least, it's surprising if you buy into stereotypes. I'm not interested in performing a demographic analysis of World of Warcraft players, because that sort of thing has been done elsewhere by people who know what they're doing. Nor am I planning to say anything in particular about why I think that gender stereotypes about WoW players exist, because in all honesty I think they're tied into gender stereotypes about not just computer gaming but also hobbies in general.
Instead, I'm just going to write about my personal experiences with female WoW players.
As I mentioned in my first post, the reason I started playing the game was because of Lexa, my then-girlfriend who is my now-wife. Lexa had been exposed to video and computer games while growing up with her brother Brian, who was five years her senior, and ended up playing Dungeons & Dragons with her brother and his friend Ian. Later, Ian and his girlfriend Yoli were involved in the beta testing of World of Warcraft, and encouraged Lexa to try it out with them.
When the game launched, I ended up playing with them on the Doomhammer server in Ian's guild, . While Lexa wasn't an officer in the guild, Yoli was, and so right from the start I was playing with women who were not only experienced and knowledgeable about the game but, in the limited way one can be in a small and casual guild, leaders.
Later, when most of our members were at the level cap of 60, merged with a larger guild, . This merger didn't last long - and in some ways, I feel like the "boys' club" dynamic of their leadership contributed to the poor fit for us, or was at least another symptom of the underlying problems that eventually caused most of us to quit and reform . I'm not sure how accurate my recollections are about all of this, especially since I wasn't directly involved, but I'm fairly positive that didn't have any women among its officers, nor any prominent regular members.
Though Lexa and I have remained friends with Ian and Yoli, we haven't played WoW with them for some years now. On the Nagrand server, as I mentioned in my introductory post, we now play in , a guild formed by Gareth, one of my friends from university. The comparison with is fairly natural; although the guild leader was a man, the first player made an officer was his girlfriend Sarah, and the couple were honestly more like co-leaders right from the start. Lexa was the second officer appointed, and in fact it wasn't until within the last year that the leadership of was "gender balanced" by the addition of Andrew to the officer list.
The third guild with which I have the most personal experience is no longer in quite the same shape as it once was, but it provides another set of examples of prominent female players and leaders. Towards the end of the Burning Crusade era, we formed a raiding alliance with , a slightly larger guild that couldn't quite make the numbers for the 25-player raids that dominated the level 70 endgame. This alliance lasted until partway through Wrath of the Lich King, although we've remained very friendly with a lot of the "Goons" and even brought some of them into as their old guild started to break up.
Just off the top of my head, I can name a half-dozen prominent players, raiders, officers, and leaders from - and, while it's true that men appeared to have been the majority population of that guild just as they are in ours, I think the fact that they had so many prominent female members speaks to a similarity of underlying culture that contributed to the longevity of our raiding alliance, just as the dissimilarity in underlying cultures caused the dissolution of 's merger with .
I'm not suggesting that the extent to which a guild includes women is the only marker of its value, or even the compatibility of its attitudes with my own and those of my friends with whom I play. It is true, though, that none of the people I like and respect in World of Warcraft would tolerate the stereotypical attitudes that I've seen reports of in other players' experiences: ideas like "female players only get attention by flirting with the men in the guild, not because they're skilled or valuable", "chicks can't raid", "female officers are useless", and so on.
I'm glad that I have the opportunity to play with so many skilled, experienced, knowledgeable, and fun women: Lexa, Sarah, Ingrid, Kate, Ellen, Jamie, Sophie, Angela, and many others. I wouldn't enjoy the game half as much without them.